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So what is trauma-informed care?
trauma-informed care means finding providers who listen actively and with compassion, accept me and my experiences as real and valid, and work with me (instead of blaming me or disregarding my concerns) through different challenges associated with getting medical care.
Here are some definitions from Harvard Medical School blog and SAMHSA.gov
And if a popular magazine works better for you, this article from Psychology Today offers useful information too.
Why We ALL Deserve to be treated using the trauma-informed care model
- As living beings, we all deserve acceptance, safety, unconditional love, compassion, and kindness – especially from the people working with, educating, and caring for us when we are hurt or ill
- You might not remember it or even consider it a traumatic experience – because the word “trauma” is associated with extremes these days – but each and every one of us has had an experience that changed us and our worldview in some way
- The impact may be subtle or obvious, but it exists
- Example 1: a child gets scared by a man in an ape costume on Halloween while trick or treating. Years go by with many visits home to see parents. But every visit, this person avoids walking near that house and can’t remember why
- Example 2: A couple wants to get married and continue the rest of their lives together. One partner works as a civil servant at a busy courthouse. The other partner is firefighter at a house that gets many calls. The constant stress of their jobs and worrying about their loved ones – is that not traumatic? Even if it’s worth the stress and worry to be with the one you love?
- Example 3: A healthy, active man goes for routine medical procedure, but there are complications. The recovery takes longer than expected, and he struggles with new limitations in movement – something that never bothered him before. – is that a traumatic experience? How will this man cope with the “new normal” as people call it?
- When people feel safe and heard, there is a lot more cooperation and a significant reduction in fear. They are empowered to learn and make informed choices with regards to the next steps. If they feel uncomfortable or don’t want to do something, they feel confident the providers will listen and accept the “no” instead of disregarding them or pushing them into doing what the provider believes is best
- Finally, medical, behavioral/mental health, and other providers are considered role models with a lot of influence and power over other groups of people. By using a trauma-informed care model, they are leading by example in showing others how to be kind and accepting of themselves and others in life
Adapting Trauma-Informed Care as a business model
Personally, I believe the trauma-informed care model can be applied to all aspects of life and business. All people deserve to be treated with acceptance and kindness. Not “nice”, but kind because there is a big difference. People who don’t like each other, even hate each other, can “play nice” or “be nice” to others if or when “nice” benefits them. But genuine kindness comes from a place of unconditional love and authenticity. Kind people treat everyone the same and always find something positive and/or neutral to say/do for others.
And so, as I started thinking about this business and what it means to me, I decided that I was going to run my business from a place of acceptance, authenticity, and genuine kindness that offered resources and support to people who want to make changes that manifest their goals. So I can start small and lead by example with blog posts, recipes, and products that show instead of tell my commitment to empowering others to achieve their goals.